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Sunday, November 14, 2010

Don’t lead a good life… Lead a great one…

Leading a life of regrets, waking up everyday and cursing yourself because you are looking forward to a routine, dull, boring, monotonous day ahead, doing a job you are not meant for but you are doing it just for the money, bearing insults from people  when you know deep down inside that you deserve better.

The above mentioned complex of signs are something many people face everyday. What do we do about it??? Nothing.  That’s where most of the people continue to drown themselves into this pit of depression and self regret.
From now on ask yourselves… what the hell is this??? Why should I continue to do this when I know that I deserve better. Why I should I stay silent while I am mocked at by everyone??If you suffer with these complex of signs its time to realize that you can change it all and make your everyday living worthwile. Instead of waking up to a tasteless day, you will be waking up to a spicy energetic and beautiful day.

To achieve this first you need to sit with a clear mind and think. Think about what you’ve always dreamed of doing. You may have dreamed of doing many things. Decide which of these things is best for you . it is upto you to decide the best path for you. no one is going to tell with a cent percent confidence that a particular job/career/ course/decision  will be good for you. You and you alone can make the best judgement from a list of choices which you have dreamed of doing.

Once you have decided what is best for you. Make it your Aim. Tell yourself “I badly need this and I must be willing to sacrifice anything to achieve this target.” Start working on it. Do not deviate yourselves. Get ready to give your 200 percent towards achieving your goal. Ignore all factors which tend to pull you off your path towards attaining a life which is completely in your control. Remember if you think you can, you can.
A main obstacle to your aims and ambitions is the words of people around you. It is a part of everyday life to interact with people around you. Interaction and inter-personal relations are the foundations for any society.  But on this journey towards your dream. People will mock you, lie to you or even worse Dump you if you are in a relationship. It is imperative that you keep your head cool and think straight inspite of horrible setbacks caused by people and their words. Just tell yourself that these people will not have the courage to stand before you when you burn midnight oil and make your dreams come true.

Following your dream and achieving what you have always dreamed of gives you the ultimate satisfaction.It’s not the money you’ve amassed over the years, one night stands, drugs or alcohol that make your life more enjoyable.  It is the respect you have earned by the work and service you have done that will make you be remembered and cherished by everyone around you. This respect will be earned if you do your job successfully. To enjoy the taste of success you need to do your job whole heartedly. Doing your job whole heartedly requires you to think of your job not as a burden, not as something you do just to earn money. Choose a job that you’ve dreamed of doing all your life. This job will automatically bring out the best in you because it was your dream and you worked for it and you feel at home when you do that particular job.Whenever you feel at home doing a job that you dreamed of  you will excel in it no matter what comes in your way.

On a closing note, I would like to say.

Fulfill your dreams.  
Live up to every moment
Achieve your goals.
Earn self respect.
Then your life will not be a good one… It will be a great one.